How to Cut Cords and Dissolve Toxic Energetic Bonds
Did you know that when you feel resentful, angry, jealous or wronged by someone, often without even realizing it you are energetically corded to them?
As we move through life, we form energetic attachments to people and things. When those connections become negative,cutting cords can restore us and resolve leaks in our energy field that cause us to feel mentally drained, physically exhausted, or emotionally “off."
⭐️ Here are some indicators of unwanted energy cords between you and another:
You continually compare yourself to the person.
You don’t feel like your true self around that person.
A part of you is still holding on to hurt or pain, even though another part of you feels consciously resolved.
You consistently dream about the person.
And the number one indictor: you have low-vibration obsessive thoughts about the person you are corded to. 😬
The best way to thoroughly dissolve toxic energetic bonds is through the power of the heart and with sincere, sacred forgiveness.
However, forgiveness isn’t easy and it’s not always something we can mentally choose.
Fortunately in those cases, another method can be helpful. Here’s how…
> Do a CORD CUTTING RITUAL <
First, it is important to understand that severing an energetic attachment to someone will only work as well as you truly desire it to. Simply going through the motions will not create desired results.
You must be ready and fully willing to let go in order to create space for the healing to begin.
1. Drop into sacred space in whatever way you choose.
For example… Light a candle. Invoke the directions. Connect with your highest self. Call forth the presence of an ascended master, a council of light, angels or the unconditional love of the Divine Mother.
Perhaps make a crystal grid or do this ceremony within a circle of rose petals. There is no right or wrong way to craft sacred space. Use your intuition and let your heart lead.
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2. Next, connect with your breath and become present. When you are IN the present moment, you are connected with your power.
Visualize roots coming from your tailbone and plugging into the heart of Gaia. Feel the stability that grounding brings to the physical and energy body. Once you feel you are grounded and relaxed, move into the visualization part of the ritual.
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3. In your mind’s eye see yourself sitting in a golden pyramid.
Warm golden light fills the space in the chamber. Merge with this light frequency until you begin to feel safe, supported, loved, and relaxed. You will sense this is a place of deep healing.
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4. Next, call in the higher self of the person you are corded to.
Speak their name aloud 3x to make the invocation and then see them sitting across from you.
Visualize a shimmering stream of bright white light in the shape of an infinity symbol coming forth from your heart chakra center. Feel the light gently flow and pulse between your heart chakra and theirs. Do this slowly and meaningfully for 1-2 minutes. (Remember you are connecting with their higher self - not the personality self.)
As you look at this person explain that you wish them well and that you are now choosing to release them with love. Let them know that neither of you is being served by continuing this connection and it is time to move forward, each in your own direction.
Next make it known that you are ready to see the detrimental energetic cord that has connected you both.
It commonly appears in your solar plexus area, but it may be attached elsewhere in your chakra column. Trust your intuition.
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5. State aloud: "I acknowledge this cord and it is now my intention to cut it and release you with love."
Visualize a giant shimmering sword coming down from the capstone of the pyramid. You grasp it with your hand and swiftly sever the cord.
Note: If you have a selenite wand or dagger it would be beneficial to use it here. You can also use your physical hand as if it is the sword and make the physical motion of cutting.
When you sever the cord, visualize pieces of it flying up and becoming absorbed into the golden light like flickers from a flame.
Then imagine pulling the root of the cord out from all 4 levels of your body and dissolve it into the light.
See the person across from you slowly dissolve into golden light.
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6. Now, bask in the golden light as if it is pouring over and through you.
You feel filled with love. You are at total peace and you feel a lightness that wasn’t present before. You feel supported in all ways. Sit in this loving space as long as you can.
Enjoy the feelings that come with this practice. Don’t block anything that comes forth. If that energy releases in the form of tears or laughter that’s okay. As the feelings flow feel them, enjoy them and observe silently.
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Here are a few other elements you can use to add effectiveness to your ceremony.
Use sage, palo santo or florida water at the beginning and end of the ceremony.
Buy a piece of THICK burlap jute rope.
Before going into the pyramid, sit quietly and make the intention to unravel your energetic connection to the person you are corded to. Unravel the rope while visualizing the person and energetically feel the negative connection loosen.Burn, bury or release the twines to water when you are done.
At the end of the ritual give gratitude to The Universe for the loving support you received during this healing.
How will you know if your ceremony was effective?
You will feel less negative emotions and experience more feelings of indifference. 💙
I hope this was helpful.
May you be liberated and may light surround you.